Do you notice your thoughts while you’re dropping something? A physical object, I mean – a plate of food, a wine glass, a crooked stack of books. There’s a moment when I think I can still recover. I don’t have to drop this. Often, a louder, uglier thought follows right behind: you deserve to lose … Continue reading Learning to be Gentle.
Recently, I read Anne Lamott’s book Small Victories. I’ve loved her books since reading Bird by Bird in college. Bird by Bird gave me the first, tiniest breath of hope that I could allow myself to enjoy writing despite debilitating perfectionist tendencies. In the book, she talks about “shitty first drafts” and how you have … Continue reading Small Victories.